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Monday, June 21, 1999

Results put SSC students to the ultimate test

Sudeshna Chatterjee  
MUMBAI, June 20: As student anxiety in Mumbai reaches a new high in anticipation of the SSC results on Tuesday, parents and schools have their attention firmly fixed on the `result profile' of the children. However, if no effort is made to understand the difficulty students face in dealing with exam-related situations, the results could be far different from what the marksheets show, experts feel.

In its latest survey, The National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) included for the first time the age group `below 16' in its records on suicides. The New Delhi Television (NDTV) in a story on suicides last year noted that 800 young students had committed suicide during the year. One of the important reasons behind these suicides: inability to handle exam-linked situations.But Dr Anjali Chhabria, a school counsellor practising for ten years now, said Mumbai appears not to have alerted itself to this problem at all. About the insensitivity of schools towards its students, especially the emotionally vulnerable ones, DrChabbria said: ``Attention is needed for two types of students: those who fail and those who don't fare as well as they expect to. But schools are so engrossed in their successful students that they do not bother to even look at the emotionally vulnerable ones. I am yet to hear of a school that is preparing to deal with the latter type of students. It is high time senior teachers stay around to listen to parents of students and spend time with anxious children.''

Parents should also refrain from making unsavoury comments if their child's result is disappointing, she said, adding that the father and mother should take care not to fight among themselves on the issue.

Dr Amresh Shrivastav of Prerna said: ``Twelve per cent of the 900 persons who attended my clinic in the last two years were aged between 14 and 20. NCRB statistics have also shown that 11 per cent of the 94,000-plus suicides last year were by students below 18.'' It is therefore necessary to ensure that counsellors reach out instead of waitingfor calls, said mental health professional Dr Harish Shetty, who has prepared elaborate tips to help students.

Tips for parents

  • Accompany your child to the school on the day of the results.

  • Do not pester your child about what would be the probable score.

  • Be with your child and help him/her share his `blues' and feelings about the big day.

  • Be alert for the following signs: excessive sulking, staying away and avoiding parents, lack of sleep, lack of appetite. If you notice any, meet a counsellor.

  • Do not be obsessed with one stream or college. n Allow your child to look for non-traditional careers also. n Do not overestimate your ability to handle your child inspite of your educational status. Seeking help is safer.

    Tips for students

  • Stop calculating & enjoy the wait. Share what you feel with your friends & teachers

  • Do not decide your future institution with your friends in mind.

  • Do not be obsessed by a stream or an institution. Lookat the large menu of opportunities and discuss it with people who matter.

  • If you feel you would fail or not reach the magic figure your parents have in mind, tell them and your counsellor.

  • If you feel disturbed and distressed, rush to a counsellor.Tips for school principals, counsellors

  • On the day of results, the principal and school counsellor should address students and offer crisis intervention as a facility in the school for at least a month. The school counsellor's residence numbers should be made available to students.

    Copyright © 1999 Indian Express Newspapers (Bombay) Ltd.


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