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Dreams from her grandma

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  • I saw her, my daughter, tall and frail with a smile that sparkled like a thousand diamonds standing at the international airport, US-bound with dreams that rose and broke like waves against the dark irises of her eyes. She was lucky to be admitted to one of the best universities for a doctorate. In fact, she had earned her place at the university with a single-minded pursuit of the academic goal when most others were aiming for professional courses and technical degrees, which come with the promise of corporate jobs and impressive tags.

    She knew she was bargaining for a long and arduous course where not only would she research for a degree but teach a diverse class of foreign students also, and at the end of it all turn into an academic in her own right. For a girl from a modest background this was no small deal: the mind-boggling campus with its towers, set among manicured rolling lawns, its extensive state-of-the-art libraries, its students representing every country on the map, the faculty formidable in their knowledge — and yet kind friends, philosophers and guides to students in the throes of a culture shock.

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    Busy years ran by, crowded with assignments, presentations, seminars, summer courses, interspersed with an interesting (sometimes even hectic) social life — friendships forged with people across the globe, vacations taken with backpacks on shoestring budgets. Life also meant coming home to lonely apartments, quick-fix dinners, poring over the laptop for the next day’s assignments and catching up on the odd call to folks at home.

    This wisp of a girl has matured into a serious academic with a dissertation and a doctorate to her name. When I saw the dissertation — a tome of a thousand page — what struck me was the list of acknowledgements on the flyleaf. The first acknowledgement, taking pride of place among professors and teachers, was to her grandmother — “my first teacher”.

    I could not but swallow a tear when I remembered my mother-in-law, hailing from a distant village, who would never have understood what a PhD meant but was powerful enough to inspire a young girl in a faraway place. Her grandmother certainly taught her many things, above all courage, fair play and a deep sense of right — the lessons of life that can hardly go wrong. It is no surprise that the girl has tried to give back in some measure what she has received.

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