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‘I don’t care much for happiness’

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    Sudhir Kakar is a novelist and a well-known figure in the fields of cultural psychology and the psychology of religion.

    What does spirituality mean to you?
    I am actually uncomfortable with the word itself. It is mostly a 19th century American concept, which then underwent all sorts of transformations, including through the New Age movements and so on.

    To me, it is about a state of mind combining two factors: the “I” being relatively silent --- extremely rarely will it be completely silent --- and feeling a loving connection. This state of mind can manifest on a large spectrum. It can be about compassion, or tolerance in its most basic forms, and extend up to what the Upanishad describes as a moment when there is no distinction between you and me.

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    Do you believe you are guided and protected by a superior force?
    There definitely is a force, but it is a very impersonal, much larger one. It is not about protection or guidance of my own self; the universe does not bother that much about me. But there definitely is something there connecting to me, and that I can connect to. I do not know what its exact meaning is, but I know it is there.

    Do you believe you have a special mission or purpose in this life?
    I do believe that life in general has a purpose, but my or your individual life do not have a particular goal. Life itself, the life force has a purpose, and we are used for it, like tools, without a clue of what this larger purpose is about. I feel too small to comprehend it, but I am definitely glad to be used for it.

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    Good analysisBy: Raj S. | 31-Aug-2009 Reply | Forward Thanks dear Sudhir Kakar.I can quite relate to the journey from India to Germany and working as an engineer. I myself is NRI Engineer living in US for 25 yrs.Love, empathy, and may be a good Guru, is so important to find yourself, grow spirituality and find your happiness.Did you ever go back to India or you are still in Germany?If you have any planned trips to USA, please let me know.Thanks,Raj
    Good articleBy: Raj S | 31-Aug-2009 Reply | Forward Thanks Nadine Kreisberger .I can quite relate to the journey from India to Germany and working as an engineer. I myself is NRI Engineer living in US for 25 yrs.Love, empathy, and may be a good Guru, is so important to find yourself, grow spirituality and find your happiness.Did you ever go back to India or you are still in Germany?If you have any planned trips to USA, please let me know.Thanks,Raj
    Confused into abstractsBy: John F. | 04-Nov-2008 Reply | Forward This guys is as confused as anybody else; he does not have a concrete sense of 'being' and is scared of knowing answers, he would rather deal in abstract. This is the only way he can justify himself. Almost sad.
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