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‘If you seek happiness, you will be unhappy’

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    I learnt that I must excel in whatever I do. I remember a conversation with a friend who had gone back to teach in the village school he had studied in. He was comparing his path and mine. I remember telling him: if as a teacher, you receive the President’s Award and I failed as a civil servant, whose life will be more fulfilled and successful? So it is about achieving excellence in whatever I do.
    So whenever I get to talk to the younger generation for instance, I insist on EECC: Excellence, Ethics (because excellence without Ethics is not worth it), Commitment and Clarity.
    It has been my effort throughout life, in whatever assignment I took, to do my job, or discharge my responsibility in as excellent a manner as possible.

    And politics, is that something you always had in mind or did it come by chance?
    I was very far from politics. So it was a deliberate decision, based on the desire to be useful. I basically realized after almost two and a half decades in the civil service that I would be doing more of the same in the next twelve years left of my career and then retire into anonymity. If I wanted to make a bigger contribution and be more useful to society, then perhaps I could run an NGO and do some good work. Then I met a politician for whom I had great regard. He convinced me that politics in a democracy provides a greater opportunity to have an impact, to strive for change. In an NGO, I could change at best a village, or ten villages whereas in politics I might do much more. That was a convincing argument and that is when I decided to join politics.

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    HAPPINESSBy: S.GURUMURTHY | 03-Jul-2009 Reply | Forward HAPPINESS IS DETERMINED BY INDIVIDUALS AND NOT BY OTHERS.MYEXPERIENCE TILL 2001 WAS DIFFERENT FROM WHAT IS AT PRESENT.UNTILL THE TIME I WAS WORKING MY HAPPINESS WAS CHANGING ANDFLUCTUATING WITHOUT CONSISTANCY. BUT I STARTED THINKING ABOUT PAST EXPERIENCE AND REVOLVES AROUND THE BOOKS I READ,RECOLLECTS THE SPEECHES OF EMINENT SPIRITUAL LEADERS, MY MIND STARTED THINKING AND EXPERIENCING THAT THE HAPPINESS ISDETERMINED BY YOU MIND BY YOU ONLY AND IT CAN BE EXPERIENCEDTO A MAXIMUM LEVEL BUT TO EXPLAIN IT IS VERY DIFFICULT.NOWI CAN TELL THAT I AM THE HAPPIEST PERSON IN THE WHOLE WORLDBECAUSE ALMIGHTY HAS GIVEN EVERYTHING AND MORE THAN I DESERVE. WHAT ELSE I REQUIRE? SO WHEN YOU GROW OLDER SLOWLYREDUCE YOUR WANTS. GET SATISFIED WITH WHAT EVER YOU GET.HAPPINESS REMAINS WITH YOU. FINALLY THERE IS SAYING "HAPPI-NESS DEPENDS UPON WHAT YOU CAN GIVE AND NOT ON WHAT YOU CANGET
    what you say either is your experience or borrowed thoughtsBy: aishleen verma | 14-Jun-2009 Reply | Forward the article was all over very good and i like it very much and what you have said in this i had experienced it . but i would like to ask you a question that this is your experience or not."to know your self great analyzing is needed in your life then one can know the true meaning of health otherwise all the definitions are related to diseases .If a man serve himself only then he can serve others.like a disturbed man can"t serve the others honestly.... happiness is a state of mind ,mind always live in duality i.e past and future but the life is in present.In present life lives.i would like to give name "ananda"
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