Ken Parr is responsible for many things in the life of Ken Parr Jr at the moment. Between checking what scores he and his team mates are shooting during practice and their tournament schedules,Parr Sr also has to look out for his sons form and technique. Above all,he is solely responsible for the 21-year-old having taken to shooting. Parr Sr won a bronze each in 3-position rifle pairs and individual events at the 1998 Commonwealth Games in Kuala Lumpur. His son has been shooting ever since.
Its like trying to teach a family member to drive. Its best to have a driving instructor to do it. When he first got into the national team he was being coached by someone else,so I didnt have to get involved too much. But now things have changed slightly, Parr Sr,who is now part of the British coaching team,says.
But with each result comes a bigger test of their father-son,coach-trainee combination. Its very difficult because of the relationship between us. But it is enjoyable at times,enjoyable when he does well,and disappointing when he doesnt, the coach,who was part of Englands shooting team when the first Commonwealth Shooting Championships were held at the Dr Karni Singh Stadium in 1995,says.
Saturdays 10m rifle individual final,which was won by Gagan Narang,was one of those days. The youngster was doing well to stay with the leaders but fell away in the last 20 shots to finish fifth. He took his focus off the technique and thought about the results. When you do that,mistakes creep in, Parr says of his son.
Parr Jr understands his fathers frustrations behind some of his criticisms,especially after Saturdays performance. I made a mistake on shot No 30 where I shot an eight and that put me down. For the last 20 shots,he asked me What were you doing? You never shoot like that,so why now? He is constantly questioning me and thats not a problem. Hopefully Ill do better in the 3-position event.
But Dad always has big expectations. Its interesting. If you are doing something wrong,hell tell you how to get over it,but if you are doing well,because he is your dad,he doesnt let you have it easy. Hes always hard on me,but I think that is good because hes only pushing me to get better, Parr Jr says.