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SHWETA DESAI Posted: Aug 15, 2008 at 0129 hrs IST
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: Three years ago, when a young Bhoomika was married into the family of the Bhosales, they sold their refrigerator to make space for the 18th member of the family. Since then, another member has been added—Bhoomika's son Atharwa, now a year-and-a-half old.

The family now shares a two-room, 320-sq-ft accommodation in a Bombay Development Department (BDD) chawl in Worli, Mumbai, at a monthly rent of Rs 17. Chawls might be disappearing, but 16,554 such tenements constructed by BDD 86 years ago have survived, with the working class, who formerly worked in the mills, preferring to live in the small kholis (rooms).

It is a tight fit. Vishwas Bhosale, the 80-year-old patriarch, has four sons—the eldest of whom is no longer alive—and three daughters who are married. Along with the sons’ families, Vishwas’s sister too has been living in the house for the last 50 years. “Although I come from a chawl set-up, I was not used to living in a joint family. But now a large family and small rooms are a part of my life,” says Bhoomika.

“We are against dowry and had told all the brides not to bring any household items. There is no place to keep them anyway,” says Bhoomika’s husband Bipin. Despite the diktat, Bhoomika brought along a wooden diwan—others in the family sleep on the ground or on the small loft. At daybreak, the four working men and the school-going children queue up to have a bath in the small mori, an open bathroom. Whoever needs to leave home early is the first to bathe. The family shares a common toilet.

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It is not just convenience that keeps the Bhosales together. In a city where family feuds and murders over property are common, the family knows its priorities. “It is good that we have small houses; there are no fights over property. A family living in small quarters is bound by love and affection,” says 16-year-old Preeti, with a wisdom way beyond her age.

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